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Eating Disorders, Featured, Reproductive Health, Self Care

More Reasons Your Period Is Irregular or Missing

February 8, 2018 By Robyn 34 Comments

I’ve had so. much. fun. doing the weekly live Q&As on Instagram. If you’re like….what you talking about? …Every Thursday I bop onto Instagram at 5pm EST (give or take a few minutes because timeliness is hard for me..) and answer your questions about anything. Really, you can ask anything! If I don’t know the answer, I just tell you that. Or if it’s too personal or too detailed/individual where I would need to know you better…I’ll let you know that too. But I’d say, 90% of the time I’m happy to give an answer. I love engaging with you guys and knew this would be a blast, but I didn’t realize how much I would look forward to Thursday evenings. So thanks for hanging out 🙂

We talk about a variety of topics – women’s health to eating disorders to changing careers to RD education to life in general – but I’ve noticed that overall, women’s health and eating disorder questions are the most frequent. Which makes sense given the theme of this space. I would love to only talk to you guys all day and get to all your questions (wouldn’t that be fun?) but since there are so many that come in (such a good thing that I’m excited about) I thought I would answer a handful of the most common questions here in a post. Shall we?

The short answer is yes, it can be. The pill introduces different synthetic hormones into your body and different types of pills have varying amounts of hormones which affect your menstrual cycle. First make sure you’re not pregnant. Second, make sure you’ve been taking the pill as prescribed — even one missed pill can cause irregular bleeding. Continuous birth control can also prevent a monthly bleed — which is the point of taking that type of birth control and an expected side effect. Since birth control was first introduced, the amount of estrogen in the pill has decreased to make the pill safer and reduce side effects. Progestin levels have also decreased. There are now all kinds of pills with varying levels of estrogen and progestin. If you’re taking a low dose birth control, that may result in not enough buildup of your uterine lining to produce a full bleed. So you might experience spotting or no bleeding at all because there isn’t much uterine lining to shed so you don’t experience a full withdrawal bleed.

Of course it’s always helpful to take inventory on your lifestyle. I have found the research on this to be lacking, but there is some suggesting that although birth control might blunt some effects that lifestyle has on your menstrual cycles, how we eat and sleep and exercise and care for ourselves still affects our cycles – birth control or not. Underlying stress affecting your period could be from inadequate nutrition, lack of sleep, high emotional stress, or too much exercise for your body.

It’s not as likely, but yes you can. PCOS stands for polycystic ovary syndrome and is essentially a hormonal imbalance (I hate calling it a disorder) that causes irregular menstruation among other symptoms. Hypothalamic amenorrhea (or HA for short) is when your period stops because your hypothalamus in your brain stops firing a hormone called GnRH like it should. GnRH is the hormones that says “go” for your reproduction system. HA and PCOS can manifest similarly and there is overlap in the diagnostic criteria so they sometimes are confused in the diagnosis process. And less commonly, they can both exist at the same time.

The main physiological difference is that hormonal imbalances seen in PCOS don’t begin in the hypothalamus like they do with HA. That means that you can have PCOS hormonal imbalances while simultaneously having inadequate GnRH signaling from your hypothalamus. GnRH doesn’t work like it because of many factors including not eating enough, inadequate macronutrients, stress and overexercising – read more on that here. If you do have PCOS and HA though, physical and hormonal symptoms will look most like HA. Think missed periods, low sex drive, vaginal dryness, low energy, feeling cold often, dry hair/nails and others. And your LH and estrogen lab levels will likely be low. Once the HA is healed, then your PCOS symptoms will become more pronounced – irregular periods, facial hair, acne, fatigue, mood swings etc. Your labs might shift too where LH is now higher than FSH and your testosterone and/or DHEAS levels might be high. If you do have both PCOS and HA, even after healing from HA you still might not be getting a regular period because of persisting PCOS. I hope I’ve made that as easy to understand as possible. Here’s a good summary of distinguishing the two that might be helpful. Leave a comment below and I’ll do my best to clarify!

You may have heard of something called “post-pill amenorrhea syndrome” which alludes to the idea that you don’t get your period within 3 months after stopping birth control because of the birth control itself. Amenorrhea (a-men-o-ree-ah) just means you don’t get your period. “Post-pill amenorrhea” is not a diagnosis supported by research. There is not a cause and effect phenomenon between stopping birth control and not getting your period. Typically, women regain their cycle after stopping birth control within 2-4 weeks, sometimes a bit longer. But if you haven’t gotten your period and it’s been more than a couple months, that should be looked into further. Often when this occurs, there was an underlying issue that the birth control was masking. What can be helpful is seeing your health care provider to figure out the underlying issue and then working to heal that – which is often the same healing process as women who aren’t getting their period and didn’t just stop birth control.

This will totally vary from woman to woman. There’s not a black and white time frame. From my experience (which isn’t the gold standard) over the past several years working with women both as an RD and Nurse Practitioner I will say I’ve seen a period return in as quick as 3 weeks and as long as about 13 months. On average, women regain their cycles within about 3-5 months with most women regaining within 6 months. Most women who regain quicker have gone “all in” with the healing process. I think we underestimate the healing power of the human body. I was just talking to a client yesterday morning who went from no period in years to conceiving a baby in less than 3 months. I never ever want to sugar coat conception, I know it’s a very sensitive and vulnerable topic – but I say that to illustrate the power of giving your body what it needs to heal and function optimally.

If any of the above resonates with you I’d love for you to check out my e-course that walks you through the healing process, step by step. I compiled all the work I do with clients into a self paced, visual and engaging course that is more affordable than 1:1 counseling. The course covers the same information I usually cover with clients over about 8-10 sessions –  but for a quarter of the cost. I’ll walk you through why you’re not getting regular periods or no period at all, the healing process, accepting body changes and learning supreme self care. Another good place to start is with my free mini course, you can sign up up for where I take you through steps to begin healing your hormones.

I’ll leave you with a little sneak peak into the course, Heal Your Hormones, Get Your Period Back.


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Comments

  1. Jazz says

    February 8, 2018 at 7:44 am

    I have a question about the PCOS/HA thing. I was dx with PCOS at 15 all the symptoms, showed in bloodwork etc. Was anorexic, lost my period for 3 years, had all the bloodwork and symptoms of HA even after recovery to a min BMI. Gained enough weight to get my period back, still annually get hormonal panels and they don’t indicate either HA or PCOS but my periods are irregular. Basically, I’m asking can you still get irregular periods from PCOS even if your bloodwork is normal? I know PCOS doesn’t go away and I’m managing the symptoms (body hair, thin hair, etc.) but I would’ve thought if the hormonal panel was normal my period would be more regular? Or is irregular periods with PCOS like the other symptoms (i.e. bloodwork may not show it, may not have cysts but can still have irregular periods?)

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    • Robyn says

      February 9, 2018 at 12:33 pm

      You can yes…you can even have normal hormone labs and have HA. It’s more than labs – its about your history, physical exam and other diagnostic tests too. Hope that helps!

      Reply
  2. Megan @ A Continual Feast says

    February 8, 2018 at 8:11 am

    I really appreciate you being bold and talking about these women’s health topics, Robyn! Loved the preview of your ecourse. I know this isn’t the point of it buuut your hair looks great! Haha 😉

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    • Mary says

      February 8, 2018 at 1:29 pm

      Haha I agree!

      Reply
      • Robyn says

        February 9, 2018 at 12:34 pm

        🙂

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    • Robyn says

      February 9, 2018 at 12:34 pm

      It’s definitely thin glass to skate on but if it helps just one woman I think it’s worth it!

      Haha you are sweet – maybe it’s because I never do my hair so it’s all relative 🙂 thank you!

      Reply
  3. Courtney Glausi says

    February 8, 2018 at 1:05 pm

    I wish I had this course a year ago when I started facing my missing period reality head on! Even still, all of your resources and support have helped me so much. I know this course will be an amazing way for people to get help with such a real problem. Also, totally off topic… but I’ve been curious and don’t know where else to ask you, where’s your favorite place to get a manicure in NYC??? I need tips 🙂 Thanks!

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    • Robyn says

      February 9, 2018 at 12:34 pm

      I’m so glad they have been helpful for you! I didn’t have 1 favorite but I did love Anne’s nails in Gramercy! There are so many places!

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  4. Amber @ Bloom Nutrition Therapy says

    February 8, 2018 at 2:31 pm

    This information is so great and needed by so many! By the way, I did NOT know about your Instargram videos! I’m so pumped. Checking it out tonight, for sure!

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    • Robyn says

      February 9, 2018 at 12:35 pm

      Hope you enjoy them! Every Thursday at 5pm EST!

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  5. Emily Frigon says

    February 8, 2018 at 5:07 pm

    Hi Robyn! Quick question: if someone is on a low-dose birth control pill, how can they tell if that’s the reason they’re not getting a period?
    Thanks for providing such great insight here!

    Reply
    • Robyn says

      February 9, 2018 at 12:35 pm

      It depends on your history, any other symptoms, labs etc. I’d encourage you to talk to your GYN!

      Reply
  6. Julie says

    February 9, 2018 at 1:11 pm

    Thank you so much for sharing your experience and knowledge on the topic. I lost my period in a time of orthorexia and exercice addiction. When I committed to gain back to a minimum healthy weight and then beyond it took me a really long time to get back my period. It took 21 months. I was followed up by an endocrinologist on the matter who was knowledgeable and fair. I got them back for the first time 2 weeks ago. I have maintained my weight, it helps to not care and stress over eating a sweet sometimes, other dealbreaker for me might have been a new boyfriend 🙂 they came very closely after another. Just to say its incredibly hard but incredibly important to relax 🙂 and for who is going through this right now, i have faith that it turn out fine in the end.

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  7. Jordan says

    February 9, 2018 at 10:31 pm

    Thanks for this post and I’m excited to check out your insta stories! I am struggling with amenorrhea. After a CT scan for digestive issues, I was told I have lots of small cysts on my ovaries, but never given a clear diagnosis. I don’t seem to have any of the metabolic symptoms of PCOS. I’m going to a new practitioner in the coming weeks because I really want to get to the root of the cause. What tests do you suggest I ask for?

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    • Robyn says

      February 12, 2018 at 5:29 pm

      email me! just because they saw cysts on your ovaries doesn’t mean you have PCOS, so don’t get too concerned yet 🙂

      Reply
  8. Meah Konstanzer says

    February 10, 2018 at 9:41 pm

    I definitely can’t wait to learn more about this topic! I hadn’t had it long or very reguarly, so at first I didn’t really pay mind to the fact that my period kept getting later and eventually went away. At the time I wasn’t any more active than sports practives and games during the week and ate totally normal. Three years later and it hasn’t come back and we still can’t figure out exactly why. Obviously, the natural reaction for a doctor seems to be to put a teen on birth control if she’s irregular (although I really don’t support this “band-aid” fix after all I’ve learned from you), but I have Factor V Leiden so I can’t take birth control. Instead they tried putting me on Progesterone twice which was just miserable, but despite the symptoms, still no period. Currently run cross country and track for my highschool, so I’m a lot more active and I did go through struggles with my relationship with food and exercise, but I’ve grown into a much healthier and free mindset with food and exercise. Not I want to FUEL my performance and I exercise because it makes me feel amazing and I love seeing how powerful I am. That being said, it’s so hard to know what to do and how to move forward!

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I have yet to experience postpartum myself, but I've had many clients and readers that have been through that season of life. Or perhaps you are currently living through the postpartum period. Every woman's body is different, therefore every woman's experience after giving birth will be different. What works for one woman, might not work for the next. While one woman might go through postpartum and adjust to newborn life quiet seamlessly, another woman might find it much more difficult. She might need the support of medication, therapy, extra help and many other things. One way is not better than the other - they are simply two different ways of navigating the postpartum period. I hope this post helps you better care for yourself, whatever that means for you. There's no right or wrong way to care for yourself as a mom or your new baby.

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A little way I’m learning to enjoy these years o A little way I’m learning to enjoy these years of getting to spend so much time with my kids: aka another way I’m discovering some pockets of peace so my heart & mind & soul don’t crumble under the reality of dependent & emotionally dysregulated tiny humans.  About once a week we go somewhere for baked goods. We drive or walk, buy something buttery & then find a beautiful, relatively quiet outdoor spot where the boys can romp and I can sit and think my thoughts while I watch them play. This past week we were found ourselves at the Wool Factory where the boys threw rocks & whatever else off the bridge while I ate 90% of this almond 🥐 from @coucourachou that will blow your mind. Boys ate the other 10% bc they were busy playing and didn’t ask for more quickly enough 😜  I’m finding *for me* playgrounds have a time & place but they aren’t where I enjoy motherhood & my two toddlers the most. Baked goods & a pretty outdoor spot without high drops my 15 month old could launch himself off of…I’m here for it.
I brought this bag of snacks along when I took the I brought this bag of snacks along when I took the boys to hike out at one of our favorite spots last week and when I ripped it open I was regretting my choice to share them with my kids. @baresnacks randomly sent me a box of snacks and I usually eat free food we receive or give it to a friend/neighbor and move on. But I felt it my duty to tell you about these bc they are THAT GOOD. I’m not getting paid and this isn’t sponsored - I was just shocked at how tasty these were and felt you needed to know. We ate them with some buttery roasted nuts and the combo was 👌🏻 but they are good just on their own.  The boys climbed rocks and swam in the reservoir - leave it to my almost 3 year old to want to strip down naked and fully submerge himself in chilly water on a sixty degree morning. “Mama can I get super nakey?” Sure baby. Sure. This is your childhood.
It’s a hard sell to get me to accept an offer of It’s a hard sell to get me to accept an offer of extended alone time away from the babies to just be. And that isn’t something that’s best for me, it’s an area I gotta grow in. So this afternoon when Nick pushed me out the door and was like - get out of here plzzzz - I walked to my favorite cafe and ordered a thick pastrami sandwich and sat there for a good LONG while before taking a long, peaceful walk in the rain to wrap up the afternoon. Note to self: stop being such a control freak and go be by yourself sometimes.
a girlfriend brought me a 🍪 the size of my face a girlfriend brought me a 🍪 the size of my face from @mariebettecafe this morning when she came to get her toddler who played with us all morning and it is v good. even better when paired with an iced latte 😍
#AlignPartner I left off a few weeks ago sharing a #AlignPartner I left off a few weeks ago sharing about how taking @alignprobiotic regularly has improved my digestive regularity.  And I’m still taking them! I’ve permanently added Align 24/7 Digestive Support* into the roundup of supplements I take before bed (prenatal, vitamin D, choline & DHA - all which help keep me healthy while breastfeeding) so I can keep seeing the benefits.  Just because you see benefits, doesn’t mean you should stop taking your probiotic. Keep taking Align daily (under the supervision and recommendation of your health care provider of course) to keep seeing the benefits!  I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again - one of my favorite parts of Align probiotics is that they don’t need refrigeration AND they come in a convenient little blister pack that has the days labeled. It’s the little things people! #MyAlignGuutJourney #guthealth  *These statements have not been evaluated by the Food and Drug Administration. This product is not intended to diagnose, treat, cure, or prevent any disease.
I realized it was going to be a long, hot afternoo I realized it was going to be a long, hot afternoon (91 and muggy in MAY 🤯) when a toddler nap was refused and a baby nap was cut wildly short ....so my tired mom brain pulled out two plastic storage bins, filled them up with soap & hose water and striped ‘em down naked in the yard. Two hours later, it was almost time for an early dinner and I had magically been able to sit for most of that time and we already had baths checked off the list. 👍🏻 I’m archiving this idea for my future self, hope it helps another tired mama out.
#AlignPartner I left off a month ago sharing about #AlignPartner I left off a month ago sharing about getting better at doing the basics to care for myself which included taking my supplements and @alignprobiotic regularly.  Probiotics take time to work so I wanted to give it a full month to see the full effects of @alignprobiotic. So here are my honest thoughts: it took a few weeks to notice any differences, but near the end of the month I did notice some changes in my digestive balance - even while traveling! I’m not someone who experiences occasional gas, bloating or abdominal discomfort frequently enough to notice a difference, so I don’t feel like I can comment on how well Align works for those benefits.  All in all though, taking @alignprobiotic was a positive experience and I really appreciated how the capsules don’t need to be stored in the fridge, making it convenient to take them with me anywhere #MyAlignGuutJourney #guthealth  *These statements have not been evaluated by the Food and Drug Administration. This product is not intended to diagnose, treat, cure, or prevent any disease.
Where we will spend a good majority of our summer. Where we will spend a good majority of our summer. Because the swampy VA summer has already begun (it’s in the low 90s today 🥵 lord help) and creeks are our retreat - not only from the heat but also from the noisy world. I need this just (if not more) than they do! We’ll be at the splash pads and pools too, but the quietness of the creek...my mental health is so about it. And it’s hours of play for them! Win win.  A couple things to note: this scene also included a few toddler reminders on finding another direction to throw rocks instead of at his brother - so not all is serene 🤪 and also, yes I am now that mom who buys the same clothing for both kids bc it keeps things simple & i think i kinda like it too 🤷🏻‍♀️
Things I love about midwifery among many: the appo Things I love about midwifery among many: the appointments, no matter how long, feel so unhurried. 
Just walked in from an appointment with my midwife because I was due for a Pap test + an overall wellness visit. My last pap was during my first trimester with Cal which feels like a jillion years ago, but it’s only actually been three years. Life changes so fast! Pre-baby life feels like a whole other life.  I’m wayyyy overdue for a visit to my PCP bc I’ve been under OBGYN or midwifery care for the majority of the past three years while having babies, but I am pretty good with keeping up with my paps. It seems women often think they need pap and/or HPV testing way more frequently than they do (and providers sometimes perform these tests more frequently than necessary - remember more testing doesn’t always mean better outcomes!)  So if you need it, here’s a quick little reminder on this chilly spring Friday afternoon on how often you need this testing (these are the recommendations from ACOG)  Women aged 21–29 years should have a Pap test alone every 3 years. HPV testing is not recommended.  Women aged 30–65 years should have a Pap test and an HPV test (aka co-testing) every 5 years (preferred). It also is acceptable to have a Pap test alone every 3 years.  If you get abnormal results, this testing frequency could change - but for healthy women with normal results, you actually don’t need testing as frequently as you might think. Which is great news for those of you who hate the speculum.  Ok, off to finish up some things on the to-do list (including cleaning this kitchen) during nap time and then come 5 o’clock, crack an IPA with our neighbors 🍻
#AlignPartner Over the past seven months since bec #AlignPartner Over the past seven months since becoming a mom of two, caring for myself has gotten shoved to the back burner. And it's been a challenge to make it a priority. My routine-resistant personality has upsides and downsides when it comes to motherhood. So I'm starting small this year with a consistent bedtime routine that includes taking my supplements and @alignprobiotic and hoping as that becomes consistent, my mornings will naturally shift too.  In short my bedtime currently goes like this….jammies & face care when putting the babies to bed. Before I go to bed (anytime between 9pm and 12am...) I’ll pump, take my supplements and fill my water. Then I go upstairs and brush my teeth. And then get in bed. The kicker: 70% of the time I find myself finishing up tasks on my phone IN BED. I hate this habit.  Back to supplements. This is something I have been able to stick with. On top of fish oil, my prenatal, choline and vitamin D, I recently added @AlignProbiotic 24/7 Digestive Support*§ to see if it helps with abdominal discomfort and regularity because when I don’t drink coffee or am traveling that can get thrown off.  I’ll be taking it every day for the next 28 days since it takes TIME for our bodies to adjust to probiotics - and I'll be taking you guys along with me as I share my honest thoughts. Many people think if they don’t see changes within the first 7-10 days then the probiotic isn’t working, but that’s not the case. I’m giving myself more than just a week or two and instead a full month to see the full benefits. I’ll keep you posted over the next month. Check out my stories to learn more! #MyAlignGutJourney #guthealth
 
*These statements have not been evaluated by the Food and Drug Administration. This product is not intended to diagnose, treat, cure, or prevent any disease.
We had an AFTERNOON today. Toddler didn’t care f We had an AFTERNOON today. Toddler didn’t care for a nap. Putting baby down was harder than I wanted it to be. Miraculously, I had a moment of clarity as I was covered in tiny humans and decided I wasn’t doing the nap battle thing a on 60 degree, gorgeous, sunny spring day 🙅🏻‍♀️ so I piled both babies into the car half naked, opened the sun roof, put on white noise for them and an audio book for me and drank a kombucha as I drove a meal to a postpartum mama. Thirty five minutes later we had a sleeping baby and a toddler who at least had a rest. Baby transferred without waking HALLELUJAH and although my toddler didn’t nap today (lord help) at least we got soaked in breezy sunshine 😎🤘🏻💆🏻‍♀️
We veered from our usual Friday night homemade piz We veered from our usual Friday night homemade pizza (minus the dough, we leave that to @albemarlebakingco) because we are eating pizza tomorrow with some friends - instead I called my mom and asked her how she makes her chicken fingers and we fried up a big ole batch of chicken nugs 🙌🏻🤤 along with a sheet pan full of sweet potato fries and a simple arugula salad dressed with parmesean, olive oil and s&p. Oh and my moms honey mustard recipe for dipping. It’s SO DANG GOOD.  Over the past 6ish months we’ve been practicing (and practicing and practicing bc it doesn’t come naturally) unplugging from technology and slowing down and resting and just being for one day a week. Some call it Shabbat. Some call it Sabbath. Maybe you call it something different. All I know is IT IS SO GOOD FOR MY WEARY SOUL and the day I look forward to ALL WEEK. Sundown on Friday to sundown Saturday. Nothing but rest. For us that means hiking (or something outside) and napping and reading and being with friends and eating really good food. And drinking some really good wine or craft beer. Sometimes whiskey. 😛  And because I know I’ll get asked about the chicken finger recipe and also because it’s too good not to share and Momma Coale said I could, here ya go:  Cut chicken breast into thin strips or small pieces (I prefer nug size bc the breading to chicken ratio is perfection). Salt and pepper those babies really well. Then dredge them in all purpose flour, then egg, then panko - just like you would bread anything else. Then fry them up in a light oil - I use avocado oil because that’s our everyday oil. You could also use canola or peanut oil. Just fill a pan with an inch or so of oil on medium high heat. They only take 2-3 minutes per side. You can always temp them to make sure they are at least 165 degrees F to really make sure they are done. Dunk in all the sauces and enjoy!  Happy weekend!

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