The Real Life RD

helping you find peace with food and your natural body size

  • the RD & NP
  • Online Courses
  • Women’s Wellness
  • Speaking
    • Facebook
    • Instagram
    • Pinterest
    • RSS
    • Twitter
    • YouTube
Food Freedom, Stress, Weekly Eats

Maintaining A Healthy Relationship With Food

August 20, 2014 By Robyn 19 Comments

WIAW is back! These past couple of weeks have been a little crazy. Finals week was crazy in a “just get through this week and then you can sleep all you want” kind of way and last week in Charlottesville was crazy in a “how much can you do in 7 days?” kind of way.

So this week at home is all about rest, rest, rest.
But whether it’s finals week or a week in Charlottesville or a week at home in Indianapolis one thing is the same. I’m eating out a lot, I’m not in my kitchen, and I’m out of my “food routine.”
I get emails and questions a lot from clients about how to eat “healthy” when you get out of your routine. Or maybe it’s better put, “how do you maintain a healthy relationship with food regardless of the circumstances?”
Things are much easier when you’re in your own kitchen, going about your routine and you have an idea of how the day or week will go. Things get a bit harder when your routine gets thrown off, when your environment changes and when plans are up in the air. Whether you’re recovering from an eating disorder or you’re trying to reach your healthy, happy weight or you’re simply wanting to maintain a happy, healthy balance- it takes a little more thought to nourish your body well when you’re not going about your normal routine.
But spontaneity is the spice of life!
And maintaining a healthy relationship with food when you’re out of routine just might mean you’re not always eating the healthiest.
But sometimes “unhealthy” choices are actually healthy.
And letting go of making healthy choices 24/7 might be a good thing.
Because stressing about not eating the healthiest is probably more unhealthy for you than just eating the dang not-so-healthy food and calling it a day.
There are a few things that I try to keep in mind when I’m out of my normal routine to keep my body feeling good while still going with the flow and enjoying all kinds of delicious food.
A good breakfast is key. Last week I ate my standard oatmeal only a couple of times, the other mornings I was eating omelettes the size of my face or bagel sandwiches. But just because you won’t be stirring oatmeal in your kitchen at home doesn’t mean breakfast isn’t nutritious. Aim for some fruit at breakfast and a whole grain when you can. And then sometimes you just need a greasy egg bagel and that’s okay too. That will keep your soul happy.
Yesterday morning I was back to good ole oatmeal. This HUGE bowl of oatbran with peaches and chia seeds cooked in coconut almond milk and topped with Justin’s vanilla almond butter was everything I’d imagined it would be. I wanted to eat another bowl right after finishing the first.
What about lunch and dinner and snacks when you’re not in your own kitchen doing your thing?
One thing that I always try to keep in mind that keeps me feeling good while rolling with whatever comes up is to always aim to make half of what I’m eating fruits and veggies. That’s my intention- it doesn’t always happen but most of the time it does. And most of the time is good enough. If you shoot for half your plate fruits and veg, then your body is still getting the good stuff regardless of other food choices.
Now that I’m back at home in Indianapolis, my body is craving vegetables like woah. Lunch yesterday was a big salad with TJs champagne vinaigrette + an Ezekial “pizza” with hummus, avocado, spinach and peppers and a sliced apple. Followed by a sliver of chocolate cake because my brother made it and its delicious and I ate my veggies first.
Whenever I’m out and about I also pack a bar or two in my purse just in case. The worst is when you’re hungry and stuck with nothing to eat except fast food or gas station snacks. #firstworldprobs
This Renola that Larabar sent me is AWESOME.
And then when my momma Coale and I got back from shopping we ate chips + salsa + guac + carrots with TJs bean dip (which is surprisingly good!)
Sometimes we won’t eat as many vegetable as we want to and that’s okay too. Some dinners last week consisted of a slice of veggie pesto pizza or thai food that I wished had 5x more veggies in it than it did…although it still tasted awesome. But the beauty of breaking routine is that the break isn’t permanent, it’s just a break. And you can get back to your veggie loving ways in no time. Like breakfast for dinner last night. It was rainy and we were tired from shopping and all I was craving was eggs + carbs.
A veggie egg scramble + steamed broccoli + whole wheat bagel with cream cheese on one side and Melt spread on the other with jam hit the spot. Side note: go buy Melt, it’s absolutely fabulous.
And we ended the day with lots of lounging + tv + chocolate chip cookies.
Routine is wonderful and most of the time we thrive on it, but we also need a break from it to breathe and relax and rest and eat some cake.
We gotta balance out the veggies somehow.


YOU MAY ALSO LIKE...

  • Eating To Feel Your Best [Daily Eats]Eating To Feel Your Best [Daily Eats]
  • Weekly Eats From Momma Coale’s KitchenWeekly Eats From Momma Coale’s Kitchen
  • Satisfying FoodsSatisfying Foods
  • Eating Healthy On A Student BudgetEating Healthy On A Student Budget

Filed Under: Food Freedom, Stress, Weekly Eats Tagged With: breakfast, dinner, healthy balance, lunch, wiaw

« The Best Week In Charlottesville
PB Cup & Carrot Cake Oatmeal »

Trackbacks

  1. Drastically reduced says:
    July 10, 2015 at 12:47 pm

    … [Trackback]

    […] Read More: thereallife-rd.com/2014/08/wiaw-eating-healthy-despite-your-routine.html […]

    Reply
  2. try here says:
    July 31, 2015 at 6:59 am

    three reasons to own your own blog

    on the best blogging platform, wordpress.orgyou own it – that’s right the blog is yours, you pay a hosting company to host it on their servers and the rest is up to you. you can customize the theme, add plug-in, post

    Reply
  3. high status humor program review says:
    August 1, 2015 at 3:37 am

    a spell check button on the top

    bar, on blogger and word press there is a spell-check button at the top of every page you edit. after you have finished writing spell check and proof read all of your writing and then submit it.3. choice an appropriate design

    Reply
  4. شركة تنظيف منازل بالرياض says:
    August 1, 2015 at 6:40 am

    spun. some are lean on content. some

    just don’t make any sense. some are written in english that is too broken. the list goes on and on.so, i have decided to publish the first ever list of some of the dofollow blog comments that didn’t make the cut.

    Reply
  5. http://www.animationsa.org/articles/no-place-oz-vfx-sampler says:
    August 6, 2015 at 1:29 pm

    get to the point quickly. by making

    use of these tips, you’ll be sure to receive a better critique on your next written piece. blogging is one of the best ways to grow your business and drive a lot of traffic. people spend hours on blogs reading posts

    Reply
  6. learn more says:
    August 7, 2015 at 12:23 pm

    surely benefit from this article as i’m

    about to tell you the things that you can do in order to produce high quality, sensible articles.first, identify the best topics for your articles. if you’re already running a website or blog, talk about the issues that are interesting to

    Reply
  7. Social media websites says:
    August 24, 2015 at 6:23 am

    are optimizing excessively when your keywords in

    posts and titles suddenly stop making sense.on the other hand, you also need to look at how many keywords you are stuffing into your information. too much seo’ing means that you are purely writing for the robots, and that is very

    Reply
  8. check out here says:
    August 25, 2015 at 9:23 am

    to any pictures on your blog posting.the

    next method of generating a hardcore blog is to set yourself apart through your writing. create something that the reader can’t say no to. give them no option but to read your writing! no, that doesn’t mean to hold your friends

    Reply
  9. my site says:
    August 25, 2015 at 10:29 am

    have a good strong concept, an understanding

    of how to reach a lot of readers, and a lot of intelligence. however, their engagement stats are lacklustre, with high bounce rates, and speedy exits on their most interesting pages.what’s going on?although the content is good, no-one is reading it.

    Reply
  10. click here to investigate says:
    August 25, 2015 at 12:10 pm

    searching for the name. it will cost

    you 5c to run each article or copy through it and it gives you a very detailed check throughout the whole web for duplicate content. trust me it’s worth it!how do i find these guys, i mean i want a good

    Reply
  11. eurowybory2019 says:
    August 30, 2015 at 6:04 am

    discriminate against different views; in due course,

    it will serve your best interest.the lights, attention and money get many people yearning for the spotlight. as a result, people are constantly on the look out for possible ways they can be loved by the masses. in case you are

    Reply
  12. ethernet fiber says:
    September 3, 2015 at 3:36 am

    way all the time.the title is the

    only thing that matters. i know, that’s a pretty bold statement, but it’s pretty important. you see, i’ve seen many bloggers get great results just because their title was above and beyond what most people would write. make sure that it

    Reply
  13. شركة كشف تسربات المياه بالرياض says:
    September 3, 2015 at 4:14 pm

    google’s search engine practically as soon as

    you publish your blog. the number of people turning to the internet for almost all their needs is increasing by the day. this is largely attributed to the fact that the internet is a convenient place. what’s more, this is where

    Reply
  14. carpet cleaning bloomington says:
    September 5, 2015 at 10:05 am

    if you believe that this is the

    best way for you to relay instructions to your writer. make sure you provide specific instructions and as much detail as possible. this will help your writer to immediately begin working on your writing assignment.it is also important for you to

    Reply
  15. www.inbound.org/in/cleaningquotenz/ says:
    September 5, 2015 at 4:48 pm

    throughout and it should look as professional

    as possible.the extra care taken will allow the employer to see that details are taken care of. it will show that you are diligent in writing principles. providing great document samples during the interview process can solidify gaining a new work

    Reply
  16. reserver hotel pas cher says:
    September 26, 2015 at 6:21 am

    … [Trackback]

    […] Read More here: thereallife-rd.com/2014/08/wiaw-eating-healthy-despite-your-routine.html […]

    Reply
  17. Oakdale LA says:
    September 27, 2015 at 9:07 am

    … [Trackback]

    […] Read More: thereallife-rd.com/2014/08/wiaw-eating-healthy-despite-your-routine.html […]

    Reply
  18. who is Juliette Binoche dating says:
    October 7, 2015 at 10:08 pm

    … [Trackback]

    […] Read More: thereallife-rd.com/2014/08/wiaw-eating-healthy-despite-your-routine.html […]

    Reply
  19. 5 reasons you're not losing weight - New York City Dietitian Nutritionist says:
    November 29, 2015 at 10:39 pm

    […] stressing right?? And this goes back to stressing about eating something “unhealthy.” Not eating it could be more “unhealthy” than just eating it and calling it a […]

    Reply

Leave a Reply Cancel reply

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *

A non-diet dietitian and nurse practitioner helping women find peace with food, accept their natural body size and heal from hormonal issues and period problems.

More On Lady Hormones

How Birth Control Methods Affect Your Hormones, Period and Fertility

What Your Cervical Fluid Can Tell You About Your Reproductive Health

women's reproductive health

Women’s Reproductive Health 101

I have yet to experience postpartum myself, but I've had many clients and readers that have been through that season of life. Or perhaps you are currently living through the postpartum period. Every woman's body is different, therefore every woman's experience after giving birth will be different. What works for one woman, might not work for the next. While one woman might go through postpartum and adjust to newborn life quiet seamlessly, another woman might find it much more difficult. She might need the support of medication, therapy, extra help and many other things. One way is not better than the other - they are simply two different ways of navigating the postpartum period. I hope this post helps you better care for yourself, whatever that means for you. There's no right or wrong way to care for yourself as a mom or your new baby.

Postpartum Hormones: what’s happening in your body and how to care for yourself

* indicates required

Categories

Get in Touch!

Follow Me!

  • Email
  • Facebook
  • Instagram
  • Pinterest
  • Twitter
  • YouTube

I talk a lot about moving, eating, and living intuitively so you can be well hormonally and live a fulfilling life in line with your values

The Real Life RD on Pinterest

Follow Me on Pinterest
A little way I’m learning to enjoy these years o A little way I’m learning to enjoy these years of getting to spend so much time with my kids: aka another way I’m discovering some pockets of peace so my heart & mind & soul don’t crumble under the reality of dependent & emotionally dysregulated tiny humans.  About once a week we go somewhere for baked goods. We drive or walk, buy something buttery & then find a beautiful, relatively quiet outdoor spot where the boys can romp and I can sit and think my thoughts while I watch them play. This past week we were found ourselves at the Wool Factory where the boys threw rocks & whatever else off the bridge while I ate 90% of this almond 🥐 from @coucourachou that will blow your mind. Boys ate the other 10% bc they were busy playing and didn’t ask for more quickly enough 😜  I’m finding *for me* playgrounds have a time & place but they aren’t where I enjoy motherhood & my two toddlers the most. Baked goods & a pretty outdoor spot without high drops my 15 month old could launch himself off of…I’m here for it.
I brought this bag of snacks along when I took the I brought this bag of snacks along when I took the boys to hike out at one of our favorite spots last week and when I ripped it open I was regretting my choice to share them with my kids. @baresnacks randomly sent me a box of snacks and I usually eat free food we receive or give it to a friend/neighbor and move on. But I felt it my duty to tell you about these bc they are THAT GOOD. I’m not getting paid and this isn’t sponsored - I was just shocked at how tasty these were and felt you needed to know. We ate them with some buttery roasted nuts and the combo was 👌🏻 but they are good just on their own.  The boys climbed rocks and swam in the reservoir - leave it to my almost 3 year old to want to strip down naked and fully submerge himself in chilly water on a sixty degree morning. “Mama can I get super nakey?” Sure baby. Sure. This is your childhood.
It’s a hard sell to get me to accept an offer of It’s a hard sell to get me to accept an offer of extended alone time away from the babies to just be. And that isn’t something that’s best for me, it’s an area I gotta grow in. So this afternoon when Nick pushed me out the door and was like - get out of here plzzzz - I walked to my favorite cafe and ordered a thick pastrami sandwich and sat there for a good LONG while before taking a long, peaceful walk in the rain to wrap up the afternoon. Note to self: stop being such a control freak and go be by yourself sometimes.
a girlfriend brought me a 🍪 the size of my face a girlfriend brought me a 🍪 the size of my face from @mariebettecafe this morning when she came to get her toddler who played with us all morning and it is v good. even better when paired with an iced latte 😍
#AlignPartner I left off a few weeks ago sharing a #AlignPartner I left off a few weeks ago sharing about how taking @alignprobiotic regularly has improved my digestive regularity.  And I’m still taking them! I’ve permanently added Align 24/7 Digestive Support* into the roundup of supplements I take before bed (prenatal, vitamin D, choline & DHA - all which help keep me healthy while breastfeeding) so I can keep seeing the benefits.  Just because you see benefits, doesn’t mean you should stop taking your probiotic. Keep taking Align daily (under the supervision and recommendation of your health care provider of course) to keep seeing the benefits!  I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again - one of my favorite parts of Align probiotics is that they don’t need refrigeration AND they come in a convenient little blister pack that has the days labeled. It’s the little things people! #MyAlignGuutJourney #guthealth  *These statements have not been evaluated by the Food and Drug Administration. This product is not intended to diagnose, treat, cure, or prevent any disease.
I realized it was going to be a long, hot afternoo I realized it was going to be a long, hot afternoon (91 and muggy in MAY 🤯) when a toddler nap was refused and a baby nap was cut wildly short ....so my tired mom brain pulled out two plastic storage bins, filled them up with soap & hose water and striped ‘em down naked in the yard. Two hours later, it was almost time for an early dinner and I had magically been able to sit for most of that time and we already had baths checked off the list. 👍🏻 I’m archiving this idea for my future self, hope it helps another tired mama out.
#AlignPartner I left off a month ago sharing about #AlignPartner I left off a month ago sharing about getting better at doing the basics to care for myself which included taking my supplements and @alignprobiotic regularly.  Probiotics take time to work so I wanted to give it a full month to see the full effects of @alignprobiotic. So here are my honest thoughts: it took a few weeks to notice any differences, but near the end of the month I did notice some changes in my digestive balance - even while traveling! I’m not someone who experiences occasional gas, bloating or abdominal discomfort frequently enough to notice a difference, so I don’t feel like I can comment on how well Align works for those benefits.  All in all though, taking @alignprobiotic was a positive experience and I really appreciated how the capsules don’t need to be stored in the fridge, making it convenient to take them with me anywhere #MyAlignGuutJourney #guthealth  *These statements have not been evaluated by the Food and Drug Administration. This product is not intended to diagnose, treat, cure, or prevent any disease.
Where we will spend a good majority of our summer. Where we will spend a good majority of our summer. Because the swampy VA summer has already begun (it’s in the low 90s today 🥵 lord help) and creeks are our retreat - not only from the heat but also from the noisy world. I need this just (if not more) than they do! We’ll be at the splash pads and pools too, but the quietness of the creek...my mental health is so about it. And it’s hours of play for them! Win win.  A couple things to note: this scene also included a few toddler reminders on finding another direction to throw rocks instead of at his brother - so not all is serene 🤪 and also, yes I am now that mom who buys the same clothing for both kids bc it keeps things simple & i think i kinda like it too 🤷🏻‍♀️
Things I love about midwifery among many: the appo Things I love about midwifery among many: the appointments, no matter how long, feel so unhurried. 
Just walked in from an appointment with my midwife because I was due for a Pap test + an overall wellness visit. My last pap was during my first trimester with Cal which feels like a jillion years ago, but it’s only actually been three years. Life changes so fast! Pre-baby life feels like a whole other life.  I’m wayyyy overdue for a visit to my PCP bc I’ve been under OBGYN or midwifery care for the majority of the past three years while having babies, but I am pretty good with keeping up with my paps. It seems women often think they need pap and/or HPV testing way more frequently than they do (and providers sometimes perform these tests more frequently than necessary - remember more testing doesn’t always mean better outcomes!)  So if you need it, here’s a quick little reminder on this chilly spring Friday afternoon on how often you need this testing (these are the recommendations from ACOG)  Women aged 21–29 years should have a Pap test alone every 3 years. HPV testing is not recommended.  Women aged 30–65 years should have a Pap test and an HPV test (aka co-testing) every 5 years (preferred). It also is acceptable to have a Pap test alone every 3 years.  If you get abnormal results, this testing frequency could change - but for healthy women with normal results, you actually don’t need testing as frequently as you might think. Which is great news for those of you who hate the speculum.  Ok, off to finish up some things on the to-do list (including cleaning this kitchen) during nap time and then come 5 o’clock, crack an IPA with our neighbors 🍻
#AlignPartner Over the past seven months since bec #AlignPartner Over the past seven months since becoming a mom of two, caring for myself has gotten shoved to the back burner. And it's been a challenge to make it a priority. My routine-resistant personality has upsides and downsides when it comes to motherhood. So I'm starting small this year with a consistent bedtime routine that includes taking my supplements and @alignprobiotic and hoping as that becomes consistent, my mornings will naturally shift too.  In short my bedtime currently goes like this….jammies & face care when putting the babies to bed. Before I go to bed (anytime between 9pm and 12am...) I’ll pump, take my supplements and fill my water. Then I go upstairs and brush my teeth. And then get in bed. The kicker: 70% of the time I find myself finishing up tasks on my phone IN BED. I hate this habit.  Back to supplements. This is something I have been able to stick with. On top of fish oil, my prenatal, choline and vitamin D, I recently added @AlignProbiotic 24/7 Digestive Support*§ to see if it helps with abdominal discomfort and regularity because when I don’t drink coffee or am traveling that can get thrown off.  I’ll be taking it every day for the next 28 days since it takes TIME for our bodies to adjust to probiotics - and I'll be taking you guys along with me as I share my honest thoughts. Many people think if they don’t see changes within the first 7-10 days then the probiotic isn’t working, but that’s not the case. I’m giving myself more than just a week or two and instead a full month to see the full benefits. I’ll keep you posted over the next month. Check out my stories to learn more! #MyAlignGutJourney #guthealth
 
*These statements have not been evaluated by the Food and Drug Administration. This product is not intended to diagnose, treat, cure, or prevent any disease.
We had an AFTERNOON today. Toddler didn’t care f We had an AFTERNOON today. Toddler didn’t care for a nap. Putting baby down was harder than I wanted it to be. Miraculously, I had a moment of clarity as I was covered in tiny humans and decided I wasn’t doing the nap battle thing a on 60 degree, gorgeous, sunny spring day 🙅🏻‍♀️ so I piled both babies into the car half naked, opened the sun roof, put on white noise for them and an audio book for me and drank a kombucha as I drove a meal to a postpartum mama. Thirty five minutes later we had a sleeping baby and a toddler who at least had a rest. Baby transferred without waking HALLELUJAH and although my toddler didn’t nap today (lord help) at least we got soaked in breezy sunshine 😎🤘🏻💆🏻‍♀️
We veered from our usual Friday night homemade piz We veered from our usual Friday night homemade pizza (minus the dough, we leave that to @albemarlebakingco) because we are eating pizza tomorrow with some friends - instead I called my mom and asked her how she makes her chicken fingers and we fried up a big ole batch of chicken nugs 🙌🏻🤤 along with a sheet pan full of sweet potato fries and a simple arugula salad dressed with parmesean, olive oil and s&p. Oh and my moms honey mustard recipe for dipping. It’s SO DANG GOOD.  Over the past 6ish months we’ve been practicing (and practicing and practicing bc it doesn’t come naturally) unplugging from technology and slowing down and resting and just being for one day a week. Some call it Shabbat. Some call it Sabbath. Maybe you call it something different. All I know is IT IS SO GOOD FOR MY WEARY SOUL and the day I look forward to ALL WEEK. Sundown on Friday to sundown Saturday. Nothing but rest. For us that means hiking (or something outside) and napping and reading and being with friends and eating really good food. And drinking some really good wine or craft beer. Sometimes whiskey. 😛  And because I know I’ll get asked about the chicken finger recipe and also because it’s too good not to share and Momma Coale said I could, here ya go:  Cut chicken breast into thin strips or small pieces (I prefer nug size bc the breading to chicken ratio is perfection). Salt and pepper those babies really well. Then dredge them in all purpose flour, then egg, then panko - just like you would bread anything else. Then fry them up in a light oil - I use avocado oil because that’s our everyday oil. You could also use canola or peanut oil. Just fill a pan with an inch or so of oil on medium high heat. They only take 2-3 minutes per side. You can always temp them to make sure they are at least 165 degrees F to really make sure they are done. Dunk in all the sauces and enjoy!  Happy weekend!

Copyright © 2025 · The Real RD· Blog Design by Little Blue Deer


Terms and Conditions | Disclaimer | Privacy Policy