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NYC, Weekend

Weekend with Momma Coale

August 14, 2017 By Robyn 27 Comments

It’s been wonderful and relaxing to have my mom stay with us for the past week. She drove in on Monday because she brought a lot of stuff from our wedding that we couldn’t take home on a plane, so to make the most of a 12 hour drive she’s been hanging out with us all week. She’s been here a handful of times so while Nick and I are at work, the woman can totally hold her own. But after a long week, we were looking forward to some quality time this weekend. Nick was out of town so it’s been nice to have some girl time 🙂

summer weekend in nyc

Friday we were both exhausted and it was rainy. So we did what my Friday night usually consists of…a cheese board, glass (or two) of wine and getting take out. I walked over and picked up a veggie pizza with arugula from SkinnyPizza (hate that name they use to brand their thin crust pizza, but the pizza is pretty good so I got over myself)

summer weekend in nyc

We watched a movie and then I was fell asleep on the couch at 10pm..

Saturday I woke up and did some blog work, ate a banana and pb and then met my friend Sarah at 9am for a run across the bridges. We ran across the Manhattan bridge into Brooklyn, through Brooklyn Bridge Park (which is gorgeous, especially in the morning) and then across the Brooklyn bridge back into Manhattan. I loved catching up with her and it was such a refreshing way to start the weekend!

summer weekend in nyc

After showering, I made breakfast for us. Eggs with kale and tomatoes, parmesan and avocado toast. Plus a slice of cinnamon toast (butter + sugar + cinnamon) and some strawberries.

summer weekend in nyc

We headed out to get a manicure and pedicure a bit later. This is the one thing I will gladly spend money on for self care. Love it.

summer weekend in nyc

Not even two hours later after breakfast I was starving. So we swung by Whole Foods for a quick lunch before going to see Chicago.

I filled a box with spinach, tahini cauliflower, roasted brussel sprouts and an asian peanut slaw. And we also snacked on Annie’s Party Mix and a carton of whole milk greek yogurt that escaped my camera.

summer weekend in nyc

summer weekend in nyc

And then we navigated Times Square to get to the theatre. Whenever my mom is in town we try to go to a show since Nick and I don’t go often (because life gets busy and tickets can be $$..) But we snagged these tickets half off at the TKTS booth for $56 which was great price for Broadway.

Although the shows was almost unneccessarily overly sexual at times, we both loved Chicago! I thought the lead actress (Charlotte d’Amboise) who played Roxie was INCREDIBLE. I could not get over the fact that this woman could dance and sing like that at 53 years old. GOALS to be that healthy and ambitious and passionate at 53.

summer weekend in nyc

Afterward, we strolled the 2 miles down 7th Avenue to the West Village for dinner. If I have the time, one of my favorite things to do in the city is to stroll the streets because things change SO MUCH even in 1 mile span.

summer weekend in nyc

Dinner at Barraca was fab, highly recommend if you’re in the city and want somewhat affordable food and drinks. Plus, I love tapas…you get variety of flavors. We weren’t starving so we ordered a few lighter plates. Grilled broccoli with a roasted tomato sauce and pine nuts, these amazing fried brussel sprouts and bacon wrapped dates stuffed with gorganzola that were huge (and rich and delicious).

summer weekend in nyc

It started to drizzle so I suggested we uber home really quick and then wrap up the night at home with a cheese board and a margarita. They don’t go together at all, but a margarita sounded super refreshing. I can only run around the city for so long before I’m like….I want my soft clothes and the coziness of my apartment. Momma Coale was game so we did just that.

And then I fell asleep on the couch by 10:30….

I woke up Sunday a little before 7 and spent the morning praying for Charlottesville. It’s absolutely heartbreaking. I did A LOT of growing up in that town so it holds a tender spot in my heart…seeing the same streets I use to walk down every day become the site for violence, racism and hate left me nauseous and filled with grief.

summer weekend in nyc

Soooo Sunday morning was slow. Coffee + breakfast + relaxing.

I made some blueberry muffins out of a box mix and scrambled up some eggs. Then we laid outside in the sun (with lots of spf) for a few hours reading and resting. It was glorious.

summer weekend in nyc

Around 1 or so we reheated some pizza from Friday night for lunch. Nick had to finish up a project for work that was due on Monday  so momma coale and I headed off on a biking adventure into Brooklyn. My mom had never been so I had to help her check it off her list.

summer weekend in nyc

Ummm, I probably won’t try to take my mother across the Brooklyn Bridge on a Citi bike again….

But she was a total trooper! We got over into Brooklyn Bridge Park, strolled around and soaked up the views.

summer weekend in nyc

summer weekend in nyc

Then we got back on our bikes and biked back across the Manhattan bridge which is about 1000x less crowded and has pretty great views of the East River and downtown Brooklyn.

summer weekend in nyc

After we got back into the city, we swung by Peacefood to pick up dessert because I was really craving their carrot cake. And because it’s New York, we happened upon a street festival on our way there..

summer weekend in nyc

We got home around 5…I did some stretching and planks because my muscles needed to be lengthened and shaken out so badly.

Showered. Ate some cheese + crackers. Drank some wine.

Dinner was a group effort, I did the onions, Nick was on burgers and my momma did the veg + garlic parmesan potatoes –> my mom makes these and they are sooo good. I think all you do is boil potatoes, then mash them down, drizzle with olive oil, cheese and sea salt and bake for 20 minutes on 400.

summer weekend in nyc

Ended the night with carrot cake + tiramisu from Peacefood that we all shared.

summer weekend in nyc

How was your weekend? Share in the comments!


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  1. Emily says

    August 14, 2017 at 10:24 am

    Love that you got to spend so much quality time with your momma. It made my heart happy to see you get to eat yummy meals together, and it was fun and delightful to see that you got to walk, bike, and explore together. You really made the most of the time together.

    Reply
    • Robyn says

      August 15, 2017 at 12:21 pm

      it was great, thanks emily! xx

      Reply
  2. Megan @ A Continual Feast says

    August 14, 2017 at 10:46 am

    Mother/daughter time is the best! Your weekend sounds so fun and “New Yorky.” 🙂 I agree about the Charlottesville stuff- it makes me sick. I have been praying as well. 🙁
    We had some friends in town this weekend and did lots of eating/adventuring/relaxing!

    Reply
    • Robyn says

      August 15, 2017 at 12:21 pm

      friends and eating/relaxing and having fun sounds like a perfect weekend – hope it was! 🙂

      Reply
  3. Katie @ Peace Love & Oats says

    August 14, 2017 at 2:05 pm

    Your mom sounds wonderful, I’m glad you both had such a good weekend!

    Reply
    • Robyn says

      August 15, 2017 at 12:20 pm

      aww thanks katie – I think she’s pretty great 🙂
      hope you had a wonderful weekend!

      Reply
  4. Casey says

    August 14, 2017 at 4:25 pm

    Sounds like an amazing weekend! love your blog. Its so refreshing to see someone relax and really enjoy life. 🙂

    Reply
    • Robyn says

      August 15, 2017 at 12:20 pm

      thanks for reading casey 🙂 hope your weekend was great too!

      Reply
  5. Nicole @ Laughing My Abs Off says

    August 14, 2017 at 5:53 pm

    Sounds like such a wonderful and restful weekend. Any weekend that involves reading out in the sun while not on vacation is a winner weekend to me. I definitely need to try that Barraca place; I LOVE tapas. And my absolute favorite aspect of NYC is how it can feel like you’re walking through 5 different cities in one hour. 🙂

    Reply
    • Robyn says

      August 15, 2017 at 12:19 pm

      its’ crazy how much the city changes in 2 miles — so much packed into such small space!

      Reply
  6. Katherine Baker says

    August 14, 2017 at 5:54 pm

    Oh my gosh the carrot cake from Peacefoods is one of my favorite things on earth…also if you’ve not her tried their vegan cheeseburger, you must. My fav veggie burger on earth and I’ve had a lot of veggie burgers. Thanks for sharing your weekend!

    Reply
    • Robyn says

      August 15, 2017 at 12:19 pm

      It is SO GOOD. Like a thick, sweet, hearty muffin slathered in thick cc frosting. Yes I’ve had that and it’s so good too but the chickpea fries are my FAV. Like falafel on steroids and so amazing.

      Reply
  7. Hillary says

    August 14, 2017 at 6:50 pm

    Mother-daughter weekends are the best! I love getting pedis with my mama too 🙂

    Reply
    • Robyn says

      August 15, 2017 at 12:18 pm

      it makes it that much better when it’s with your momma 🙂

      Reply
  8. Haley says

    August 14, 2017 at 7:35 pm

    Sounds like SUCH sweet time spent with mom – cherish them (as I’m sure you do!)

    PS all your cheese plates make me craaaaave them! I love reading all your posts, Robyn!

    Reply
    • Robyn says

      August 15, 2017 at 12:18 pm

      such good time 🙂
      and yes to all the cheeeeeze! xx

      Reply
  9. Meah Konstanzer says

    August 14, 2017 at 8:35 pm

    What a perfect chill weekend!! I always love when my mom and I get to have special girl time together. Totally ogling at all your delicious eats too, oh my goodness, yum! I love that pineapple top too. Is it a bathing suit? This weekend my family and I made our way back home from vacation at Carolina Beach in North Carolina.

    xxMeah

    Reply
    • Robyn says

      August 15, 2017 at 12:17 pm

      Yes bathing suit! Vacation at the beach sounds lovely. Hope it was a blast!

      Reply
  10. Liz @ I Heart Vegetables says

    August 14, 2017 at 9:33 pm

    I’m glad you had a good visit with your mom!!! My parents moved to Richmond (where I am) last year and i absolutely LOVE having them close by! The older I get, the more I appreciate it!

    Reply
    • Robyn says

      August 15, 2017 at 12:16 pm

      I’m so jealous they are close!! You’re so right that you appreciate it more when they are closer. Hope you had a great weekend too Liz!

      Reply
  11. Joyce @ The Hungry Caterpillar says

    August 14, 2017 at 9:46 pm

    I didn’t realize you had lived in Charlottesville. It’s horrible to read about and must be especially horrible when it’s a place you call home.
    I’ve been snacking on your peanut butter banana cookies this weekend. They’re good. 😉
    Glad you got to spend time with your mom. I’m reminded of what a blessing it is to be able to spend time with parents now that they live far away.

    Reply
    • Robyn says

      August 15, 2017 at 12:16 pm

      I lived there for 3 years prior to New York…so heartbreaking.
      Glad you are enjoying the cookies though!

      Reply
  12. Sarah says

    August 14, 2017 at 10:35 pm

    Do you have any other baking mixes that you like?! Sometimes totally homemade seems like a lot of work on the weekends!

    Always love reading your blog : )

    Reply
    • Robyn says

      August 15, 2017 at 12:15 pm

      haha I so feel you – I love Bob’s Red Mill baking mixes too and the ones from Trader Joes. Thanks for reading! 🙂

      Reply
  13. emily vardy says

    August 15, 2017 at 6:08 am

    Such a lovely weekend! Spending time with my mama is one of my favorite things too 🙂

    Reply
    • Robyn says

      August 15, 2017 at 12:08 pm

      it is always so good. hope your weekend was great too!

      Reply
  14. Rachel says

    August 15, 2017 at 4:03 pm

    Looks like such a great weekend, happy you got to spend some quality time with your mom!

    Reply

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