The Real Life RD

helping you find peace with food and your natural body size

  • the RD & NP
  • Online Courses
  • Women’s Wellness
  • Speaking
    • Facebook
    • Instagram
    • Pinterest
    • RSS
    • Twitter
    • YouTube
Boston, Life, Weekend

Our First Weekend In Boston [Recap]

December 4, 2017 By Robyn 19 Comments

We’ve now been in Boston for barely more than 72 into hours and I’m wondering why it took us so long to move here?

Just kidding. New York was good and right in its own way.

But Boston, I feel like my chest has loosened and I’ve been lifted out of a pressure cooker and into a crock pot. I don’t feel as rushed, trapped, emotionally drained and overwhelmed and instead feel more margin (mainly due to closer proximity of the city, walking ability and less crowds to fight) in my day, less hurry and hustle, more space to breathe and think and just be and all around more calm. I know many people thrive in the uber fast pace and intense ambition of New York. And while I feel like yes, Boston still embodies some of that – it feels invigorating instead of all consuming. It seems people know how to chill out and slow down more here and everyone isn’t trying to crush life 24/7. I could be totally wrong (after all I’ve been here for 72 hours) but that’s what it feels like so far for me.

Friday morning I worked from a coffee shop and planned on a Barre3 class at noon. Then the broker we are working with told us he could show us several apts so the class got nixed and we spent a couple hours seeing apartments instead. We completely fell in love with one in the South End, submitted an application, but a couple submitted their application hours before us so we didn’t get it. We were pretty bummed but we applied for another one last night which is a bit smaller, but in a better location in the South End and significantly less $$ which is always good. Hopefully we will have a home today!

Lunch on Friday was buckwheat noodle salad from Flour.

Worked the rest of the afternoon. And around 6 we strolled over to Masa for a margarita and dinner.

We started with the nachos which were awesome. We planned on also ordering tacos but after we ate 95% of this plate I was full + satisfied.

Also so cool —-> we sat down at the bar next to this couple and about 20 minutes into drinking margaritas the girl leaned over and in the chillest voice goes, “Not to be weird, but I know you..” She was a reader. Hi Ashley! We talked to her and her fiancé for a while so that was super fun and unexpected.

After they left we ended up making friends with an older couple and talked to them for like an hour. It was a good night.

Saturday began with coffee + an Rxbar before I had a client call at 8:30. Then I went to a 9:45 Barre3 class. After moving all week and not being able to find time or not feeling like any formal movement, I was more than ready for an actual planned class. Verdict —> people there were so nice, the class was hard in the best way, and I’ll definitely be back.

Then I made a quick trip to the Trader Joe’s for breakfast + lunch food so we stop eating out so much.

Ate brunch. Eggs + toast and banana with sunbutter.

And Saturday afternoon was spent working on blog stuff at Render Coffee.

Later that evening we went out with a couple friends (the friends we are staying with, we haven’t made friends here that fast …) to Urban Grape for a wine tasting. We’ve been to this wine store a few times when we’ve visited and loved it. It’s such a social wine shop and the people there are very knowledgable and eager to help.

Afterward we walked over to Buttermilk and Bourbon for dinner which I’d describe as southern tapas. It was super dark inside so I didn’t take any photos. We order the honey biscuits, fried chicken, fried pickles, cajun guacamole with bbq kettle chips, and the wedge salad to split. Plus cocktails to drink – I went with the Manhattan. The food and service were great, we will definitely be back!

After dinner, we went back to the apartment for a fire and sat outside talking for a couple hours before going to bed. We won’t have outdoor space at our apartment (if we hopefully get it!) but Peter lives right around the corner, so we will just use his amazing outdoor patio 🙂

Sunday started with breakfast + church. We’re church shopping and I hope we find a church home sooner rather than later, but I know it can be a process. Yesterday we started by trying out Reality. Overall, we liked it. I’ve had some people message me on Instagram with church suggestions, but if any of you Boston readers know of good churches, send them my way!

We did a bigger grocery shop at Whole Foods after church IN OUR CAR. I can drive a car to the grocery. Such a simple thing but so life changing.

We ate leftover pizza for lunch. And then we found out we didn’t get the apartment we hoped for so our broker called and said he could show us another one that was similar. So we did that.

The rest of Sunday afternoon was spent laying and napping. Around 5pm I decided I was craving some movement and fresh air so went on a walk/run around Back Bay, Boston Commons and Beacon Hill. No music or phone. It was so pretty.

We made dinner for Peter + Phil (the two friends (and brothers) that are hosting us) along with their fiancés Sunday night. Spinach + feta burgers, salad, roasted cauliflower and sweet potatoes.

And then we promptly passed out by 9:45pm. I was totally exhausted.

I have several clients this morning and then will be at a coffee shop later this afternoon. Maybe I’ll do some yoga or something…or maybe just go on a walk.

I hope you guys had a great weekend too – share some relaxing things you did in the comments!


YOU MAY ALSO LIKE...

  • Weekend Recap [Dinner Parties and Red Wine]Weekend Recap [Dinner Parties and Red Wine]
  • Buttery Deliciousness in Boston {weekend recap}Buttery Deliciousness in Boston {weekend recap}
  • Weekend Recap and New Shifts In Life & WorkWeekend Recap and New Shifts In Life & Work
  • Weekend in VermontWeekend in Vermont

Filed Under: Boston, Life, Weekend

« We Made It To Boston!
What Intuitive Eating Looks Like As a New Mom »

Comments

  1. Jess says

    December 4, 2017 at 8:52 am

    We have gone to Citylife Presbyterian church for years and love it (meets in the Revere hotel). The South End is so great, hope you hear good news on the apartment!

    Reply
    • Robyn says

      December 9, 2017 at 1:08 pm

      we have that on our list to check out!

      Reply
  2. Kaitlyn @ Powered by Sass says

    December 4, 2017 at 10:41 am

    Boston seems like such a great city! I’ve only been there once during a layover to Germany, and my boyfriend and I spent the time we had walking the Freedom Trail, but I’d love to get back out there and explore!

    Reply
    • Robyn says

      December 9, 2017 at 1:07 pm

      you should! we are loving it so far

      Reply
  3. Hillary Parker says

    December 4, 2017 at 11:42 am

    Those margs look amazing!!

    I read in bed with cozy Christmas lights on 🙂 Oh, and baked gingerbread muffins, mmmm.

    Reply
    • Robyn says

      December 9, 2017 at 1:07 pm

      gingerbread muffins! those sound fab

      Reply
  4. Ellen says

    December 4, 2017 at 11:51 am

    Your feeling of invigorating-not-all-consuming is exactly how I felt about Chicago vs NYC. So happy you’re loving it and I hope you get the apartment!
    This weekend was pretty chilly/rainy in Paris and I was feeling kind of exhausted last week, so aside from getting outside for a walk, a grocery shop, and an exercise class, I spent most of my weekend in bed, writing blog posts and my last college essay. Super restful, and just what I needed before I finish school/go on vacation/go home. 🙂

    Reply
    • Robyn says

      December 9, 2017 at 1:07 pm

      We love Chicago too!! That sounds like a perfect weekend, congrats on wrapping up school 🙂

      Reply
  5. Carey Aiken says

    December 4, 2017 at 12:10 pm

    Sounds like a great first weekend in Boston! My Husband and myself went for a 5 mile hike with our dog on Saturday in a place here in Scotland called the Green Loch (or Lake for those not familiar with the Scottish tongue!) and then Sunday afternoon was spent baking brownies and cookies with my hubby as well, his brownies turned out better than my cookies! 🙁 Everything was tasty though!

    Reply
    • Robyn says

      December 9, 2017 at 1:06 pm

      That sounds gorgeous!! And what a relaxing weekend 🙂

      Reply
  6. Amber @ Bloom Nutrition Therapy says

    December 4, 2017 at 12:51 pm

    It cracks me up how excited you are to do grocery shopping in your car! Here I am trying to get grocery delivery to my home in the backwoods of Kentucky and absolutely despise going to the store. Lol!

    Reply
    • Robyn says

      December 9, 2017 at 1:06 pm

      haha my mom was like “I KNOW, a car at the grocery store, you’ve only mentioned it 10 times”

      Reply
  7. Manasa says

    December 4, 2017 at 5:31 pm

    So happy the move is going well!!!
    I love all your posts on hormones and female health etc, have you ever thought about doing a post on adult acne and hormones?

    Reply
    • Robyn says

      December 9, 2017 at 1:05 pm

      I havne’t yet but I can add it to the list!

      Reply
  8. Emily Swanson says

    December 5, 2017 at 12:58 am

    SO THRILLED that you found such a sweet restful spot in Boston and that you are in the midst of finding a church family too Robyn; it makes my heart happy to see how much you are settling into Boston and loving it there. I can imagine that the pace is so much better than New York City, and I can see you and Nick really blossoming and growing there.

    I also love how intuitive you are with your body and how you nommed on the nachos with Nick until you were satisfied. I think my greatest fear that I’m facing right now is doing exactly that, but this was a real encouragement!

    Reply
    • Robyn says

      December 9, 2017 at 1:05 pm

      I hope you enjoy some nachos in the near future Emily! 🙂

      Reply
  9. emily vardy says

    December 5, 2017 at 6:47 am

    So excited for you and your new life! Also glad to hear you’re liking it so far and adjusting so well so quickly! Good luck with the apartment 🙂

    Reply
    • Robyn says

      December 9, 2017 at 1:04 pm

      Thank you Emily!!

      Reply
  10. Jojo says

    December 13, 2017 at 4:13 am

    Congrats on your move to Boston! I was actually just there for a day, and I had the exact same salad from Flour (plus some delicious pastries from there), except I ate it on the plane home. I feel the same way about Boston and New York, and I would love to visit Boston again in the near future. Hope everything goes well!

    Reply

Leave a Reply Cancel reply

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *

A non-diet dietitian and nurse practitioner helping women find peace with food, accept their natural body size and heal from hormonal issues and period problems.

More On Lady Hormones

How Birth Control Methods Affect Your Hormones, Period and Fertility

What Your Cervical Fluid Can Tell You About Your Reproductive Health

women's reproductive health

Women’s Reproductive Health 101

I have yet to experience postpartum myself, but I've had many clients and readers that have been through that season of life. Or perhaps you are currently living through the postpartum period. Every woman's body is different, therefore every woman's experience after giving birth will be different. What works for one woman, might not work for the next. While one woman might go through postpartum and adjust to newborn life quiet seamlessly, another woman might find it much more difficult. She might need the support of medication, therapy, extra help and many other things. One way is not better than the other - they are simply two different ways of navigating the postpartum period. I hope this post helps you better care for yourself, whatever that means for you. There's no right or wrong way to care for yourself as a mom or your new baby.

Postpartum Hormones: what’s happening in your body and how to care for yourself

* indicates required

Categories

Get in Touch!

Follow Me!

  • Email
  • Facebook
  • Instagram
  • Pinterest
  • Twitter
  • YouTube

I talk a lot about moving, eating, and living intuitively so you can be well hormonally and live a fulfilling life in line with your values

The Real Life RD on Pinterest

Follow Me on Pinterest
A little way I’m learning to enjoy these years o A little way I’m learning to enjoy these years of getting to spend so much time with my kids: aka another way I’m discovering some pockets of peace so my heart & mind & soul don’t crumble under the reality of dependent & emotionally dysregulated tiny humans.  About once a week we go somewhere for baked goods. We drive or walk, buy something buttery & then find a beautiful, relatively quiet outdoor spot where the boys can romp and I can sit and think my thoughts while I watch them play. This past week we were found ourselves at the Wool Factory where the boys threw rocks & whatever else off the bridge while I ate 90% of this almond 🥐 from @coucourachou that will blow your mind. Boys ate the other 10% bc they were busy playing and didn’t ask for more quickly enough 😜  I’m finding *for me* playgrounds have a time & place but they aren’t where I enjoy motherhood & my two toddlers the most. Baked goods & a pretty outdoor spot without high drops my 15 month old could launch himself off of…I’m here for it.
I brought this bag of snacks along when I took the I brought this bag of snacks along when I took the boys to hike out at one of our favorite spots last week and when I ripped it open I was regretting my choice to share them with my kids. @baresnacks randomly sent me a box of snacks and I usually eat free food we receive or give it to a friend/neighbor and move on. But I felt it my duty to tell you about these bc they are THAT GOOD. I’m not getting paid and this isn’t sponsored - I was just shocked at how tasty these were and felt you needed to know. We ate them with some buttery roasted nuts and the combo was 👌🏻 but they are good just on their own.  The boys climbed rocks and swam in the reservoir - leave it to my almost 3 year old to want to strip down naked and fully submerge himself in chilly water on a sixty degree morning. “Mama can I get super nakey?” Sure baby. Sure. This is your childhood.
It’s a hard sell to get me to accept an offer of It’s a hard sell to get me to accept an offer of extended alone time away from the babies to just be. And that isn’t something that’s best for me, it’s an area I gotta grow in. So this afternoon when Nick pushed me out the door and was like - get out of here plzzzz - I walked to my favorite cafe and ordered a thick pastrami sandwich and sat there for a good LONG while before taking a long, peaceful walk in the rain to wrap up the afternoon. Note to self: stop being such a control freak and go be by yourself sometimes.
a girlfriend brought me a 🍪 the size of my face a girlfriend brought me a 🍪 the size of my face from @mariebettecafe this morning when she came to get her toddler who played with us all morning and it is v good. even better when paired with an iced latte 😍
#AlignPartner I left off a few weeks ago sharing a #AlignPartner I left off a few weeks ago sharing about how taking @alignprobiotic regularly has improved my digestive regularity.  And I’m still taking them! I’ve permanently added Align 24/7 Digestive Support* into the roundup of supplements I take before bed (prenatal, vitamin D, choline & DHA - all which help keep me healthy while breastfeeding) so I can keep seeing the benefits.  Just because you see benefits, doesn’t mean you should stop taking your probiotic. Keep taking Align daily (under the supervision and recommendation of your health care provider of course) to keep seeing the benefits!  I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again - one of my favorite parts of Align probiotics is that they don’t need refrigeration AND they come in a convenient little blister pack that has the days labeled. It’s the little things people! #MyAlignGuutJourney #guthealth  *These statements have not been evaluated by the Food and Drug Administration. This product is not intended to diagnose, treat, cure, or prevent any disease.
I realized it was going to be a long, hot afternoo I realized it was going to be a long, hot afternoon (91 and muggy in MAY 🤯) when a toddler nap was refused and a baby nap was cut wildly short ....so my tired mom brain pulled out two plastic storage bins, filled them up with soap & hose water and striped ‘em down naked in the yard. Two hours later, it was almost time for an early dinner and I had magically been able to sit for most of that time and we already had baths checked off the list. 👍🏻 I’m archiving this idea for my future self, hope it helps another tired mama out.
#AlignPartner I left off a month ago sharing about #AlignPartner I left off a month ago sharing about getting better at doing the basics to care for myself which included taking my supplements and @alignprobiotic regularly.  Probiotics take time to work so I wanted to give it a full month to see the full effects of @alignprobiotic. So here are my honest thoughts: it took a few weeks to notice any differences, but near the end of the month I did notice some changes in my digestive balance - even while traveling! I’m not someone who experiences occasional gas, bloating or abdominal discomfort frequently enough to notice a difference, so I don’t feel like I can comment on how well Align works for those benefits.  All in all though, taking @alignprobiotic was a positive experience and I really appreciated how the capsules don’t need to be stored in the fridge, making it convenient to take them with me anywhere #MyAlignGuutJourney #guthealth  *These statements have not been evaluated by the Food and Drug Administration. This product is not intended to diagnose, treat, cure, or prevent any disease.
Where we will spend a good majority of our summer. Where we will spend a good majority of our summer. Because the swampy VA summer has already begun (it’s in the low 90s today 🥵 lord help) and creeks are our retreat - not only from the heat but also from the noisy world. I need this just (if not more) than they do! We’ll be at the splash pads and pools too, but the quietness of the creek...my mental health is so about it. And it’s hours of play for them! Win win.  A couple things to note: this scene also included a few toddler reminders on finding another direction to throw rocks instead of at his brother - so not all is serene 🤪 and also, yes I am now that mom who buys the same clothing for both kids bc it keeps things simple & i think i kinda like it too 🤷🏻‍♀️
Things I love about midwifery among many: the appo Things I love about midwifery among many: the appointments, no matter how long, feel so unhurried. 
Just walked in from an appointment with my midwife because I was due for a Pap test + an overall wellness visit. My last pap was during my first trimester with Cal which feels like a jillion years ago, but it’s only actually been three years. Life changes so fast! Pre-baby life feels like a whole other life.  I’m wayyyy overdue for a visit to my PCP bc I’ve been under OBGYN or midwifery care for the majority of the past three years while having babies, but I am pretty good with keeping up with my paps. It seems women often think they need pap and/or HPV testing way more frequently than they do (and providers sometimes perform these tests more frequently than necessary - remember more testing doesn’t always mean better outcomes!)  So if you need it, here’s a quick little reminder on this chilly spring Friday afternoon on how often you need this testing (these are the recommendations from ACOG)  Women aged 21–29 years should have a Pap test alone every 3 years. HPV testing is not recommended.  Women aged 30–65 years should have a Pap test and an HPV test (aka co-testing) every 5 years (preferred). It also is acceptable to have a Pap test alone every 3 years.  If you get abnormal results, this testing frequency could change - but for healthy women with normal results, you actually don’t need testing as frequently as you might think. Which is great news for those of you who hate the speculum.  Ok, off to finish up some things on the to-do list (including cleaning this kitchen) during nap time and then come 5 o’clock, crack an IPA with our neighbors 🍻
#AlignPartner Over the past seven months since bec #AlignPartner Over the past seven months since becoming a mom of two, caring for myself has gotten shoved to the back burner. And it's been a challenge to make it a priority. My routine-resistant personality has upsides and downsides when it comes to motherhood. So I'm starting small this year with a consistent bedtime routine that includes taking my supplements and @alignprobiotic and hoping as that becomes consistent, my mornings will naturally shift too.  In short my bedtime currently goes like this….jammies & face care when putting the babies to bed. Before I go to bed (anytime between 9pm and 12am...) I’ll pump, take my supplements and fill my water. Then I go upstairs and brush my teeth. And then get in bed. The kicker: 70% of the time I find myself finishing up tasks on my phone IN BED. I hate this habit.  Back to supplements. This is something I have been able to stick with. On top of fish oil, my prenatal, choline and vitamin D, I recently added @AlignProbiotic 24/7 Digestive Support*§ to see if it helps with abdominal discomfort and regularity because when I don’t drink coffee or am traveling that can get thrown off.  I’ll be taking it every day for the next 28 days since it takes TIME for our bodies to adjust to probiotics - and I'll be taking you guys along with me as I share my honest thoughts. Many people think if they don’t see changes within the first 7-10 days then the probiotic isn’t working, but that’s not the case. I’m giving myself more than just a week or two and instead a full month to see the full benefits. I’ll keep you posted over the next month. Check out my stories to learn more! #MyAlignGutJourney #guthealth
 
*These statements have not been evaluated by the Food and Drug Administration. This product is not intended to diagnose, treat, cure, or prevent any disease.
We had an AFTERNOON today. Toddler didn’t care f We had an AFTERNOON today. Toddler didn’t care for a nap. Putting baby down was harder than I wanted it to be. Miraculously, I had a moment of clarity as I was covered in tiny humans and decided I wasn’t doing the nap battle thing a on 60 degree, gorgeous, sunny spring day 🙅🏻‍♀️ so I piled both babies into the car half naked, opened the sun roof, put on white noise for them and an audio book for me and drank a kombucha as I drove a meal to a postpartum mama. Thirty five minutes later we had a sleeping baby and a toddler who at least had a rest. Baby transferred without waking HALLELUJAH and although my toddler didn’t nap today (lord help) at least we got soaked in breezy sunshine 😎🤘🏻💆🏻‍♀️
We veered from our usual Friday night homemade piz We veered from our usual Friday night homemade pizza (minus the dough, we leave that to @albemarlebakingco) because we are eating pizza tomorrow with some friends - instead I called my mom and asked her how she makes her chicken fingers and we fried up a big ole batch of chicken nugs 🙌🏻🤤 along with a sheet pan full of sweet potato fries and a simple arugula salad dressed with parmesean, olive oil and s&p. Oh and my moms honey mustard recipe for dipping. It’s SO DANG GOOD.  Over the past 6ish months we’ve been practicing (and practicing and practicing bc it doesn’t come naturally) unplugging from technology and slowing down and resting and just being for one day a week. Some call it Shabbat. Some call it Sabbath. Maybe you call it something different. All I know is IT IS SO GOOD FOR MY WEARY SOUL and the day I look forward to ALL WEEK. Sundown on Friday to sundown Saturday. Nothing but rest. For us that means hiking (or something outside) and napping and reading and being with friends and eating really good food. And drinking some really good wine or craft beer. Sometimes whiskey. 😛  And because I know I’ll get asked about the chicken finger recipe and also because it’s too good not to share and Momma Coale said I could, here ya go:  Cut chicken breast into thin strips or small pieces (I prefer nug size bc the breading to chicken ratio is perfection). Salt and pepper those babies really well. Then dredge them in all purpose flour, then egg, then panko - just like you would bread anything else. Then fry them up in a light oil - I use avocado oil because that’s our everyday oil. You could also use canola or peanut oil. Just fill a pan with an inch or so of oil on medium high heat. They only take 2-3 minutes per side. You can always temp them to make sure they are at least 165 degrees F to really make sure they are done. Dunk in all the sauces and enjoy!  Happy weekend!

Copyright © 2025 · The Real RD· Blog Design by Little Blue Deer


Terms and Conditions | Disclaimer | Privacy Policy