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Body Image, Food Freedom, Intuitive Eating, Self Care

Creating A Non Diet 2018 Bubble For Yourself

January 2, 2018 By Robyn 21 Comments

It’s January 2nd. The gyms are more crowded than ever, restaurants might be a little emptier and social media feeds will probably include people drastically changing their lives to become “healthier” in 2018. More meal prep, talk about that day’s exercise, cut out this and don’t eat that. But it will wear off. And it will slow down. Hang in there. All this beginning of the year jazz and hype isn’t sustainable.

But in the meantime, how can you cultivate a non-diet bubble for yourself when it feels like the majority of people are talking about their workout routine and clean eating?

I’ve gathered some resources for you in hopes of helping you do just that. To create a cozy non diet bubble that allows you to feel your best and live out your values. Because controlling food and your body is never the answer. That’s actually a manifestation of an internal struggle.

Cheers to more freedom in 2018!

napa weekend

People To Follow On Social Media

Rachael from Rachael Hartley Nutrition

Heather from RD Real Talk

Kortney from Fueling Strength

Paige from Paige Smathers RD

Sumner from Intuitive Eating RD

Kylie from Immaeatthat

Jessie from Jessie Haggerty RD

Kara from The Foodie Dietitian

Marci from Marci RD

Hayley from INSPIRD Nutrition

Alissa from Alyssa Rumsey RD

Kim from Kim Hoban RD

Alex from Delish Knowledge

Fiona from The Mindful Dietitian

Sarah from Sarah B Nutrition

Ashley from Donut Eating Dietitian

Judy from Food Peace Dietitian

Blog Posts To Read

Surviving the End of Year Diet Craze

How To Be Brave In Your Body

When Body Acceptance Feels Like Giving Up

5 Steps to Cope With Diet Talk

The Power of Self Compassion

Reframing Disordered Thoughts and Beliefs

2018: Not New You, But Your Best You

Specific Ideas For How To Feel At Home In Your Body

Should I Lose Weight? And Can I Lose Weight Without Dieting?

8 Genius Responses to Family Members’ Comments About Your Body

Let’s Begin With A New Kindness

Podcasts Worth The Listen

Nutrition Matters [link]

Body Love Project [link]

RD Real Talk [link]

Nut Butter Radio [link]

Love Food [link]

Body Kindness [link]

Finding Body Freedom [link]

Don’t Salt My Game [link]


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Comments

  1. Amber @ Bloom Nutrition Therapy says

    January 2, 2018 at 11:56 am

    These are great! Thanks for sharing!

    Reply
    • Robyn says

      January 2, 2018 at 9:02 pm

      🙂

      Reply
  2. Krystal // The Krystal Diaries says

    January 2, 2018 at 12:57 pm

    This time of year is so hard sometimes. A lot of my friends and family start restrictive diets and that’s all they’ll talk about. There’s always one or two friends that try to convince me I should start the diet with them but I’ve never been a restrictive eater. I’d rather eat balanced and if I notice I’m eating too much of something lately like sweets, I’ll just cut back but not completely cut it out of my diet. I’m following some of these ladies on Instagram now! So much better than seeing all the It Works stuff.

    Reply
    • Robyn says

      January 2, 2018 at 9:02 pm

      Wishing you a happy New Year that’s full of lots of non diet things 🙂

      Reply
  3. Hillary S Gras says

    January 2, 2018 at 1:31 pm

    I would add Food Psych to that podcast list!!! Thanks for a great post as always!

    Reply
    • Robyn says

      January 2, 2018 at 9:01 pm

      oh definitely!

      Reply
  4. Andrea says

    January 2, 2018 at 1:43 pm

    I read your lovely blog through the bloglovin site and right in the middle of the post an add for weight watchers popped up! Irony at it’s finest …. not sure if there’s anything you can do about it but just thought you might want to know! Happy new year!

    Reply
    • Robyn says

      January 2, 2018 at 9:01 pm

      oh no!! I’ll email my Ad people right now – thank you for sharing Andrea

      Reply
  5. emilyvardy says

    January 3, 2018 at 7:05 am

    Eeeek, thank you for this! I’m already so sick of the diet talk….I had to yell at my coworkers the other day “NO no diet talk we are not doing this shit!!!” lol

    Reply
  6. Kate says

    January 3, 2018 at 12:38 pm

    Hi Robyn! Thank you for all of the amazing resources and for always having a positive, genuine message. These resources and your blog will be a great source of inspiration for me as I enter recovery. At the end of the year, I decided to take some time away from work to pursue total recovery. The timing of this decision has been difficult with the holidays and now the hype of resolutions. Despite these hurdles, I know I will overcome, and I have to give some credit to influencers like you for helping me along my path.

    Reply
    • Robyn says

      January 3, 2018 at 11:04 pm

      I know it was a hard decision Kate but know that I am thinking of you and rooting for you. You will overcome. I am saving space for you on the other side – it is there <3

      Reply
  7. Amanda Boyer says

    January 3, 2018 at 5:15 pm

    I love that everyone in the non-diet world is sharing and building up more non-diet health professionals. It gives me so much hope and brings me so much joy as I am able to build my feed with so many like minded HAES focused practitioners!

    Reply
    • Robyn says

      January 3, 2018 at 11:03 pm

      I love all the energy too! A great community <3

      Reply
  8. Emily says

    January 3, 2018 at 7:12 pm

    I am totally thankful for you and Sarah @bucketlisttummy, because you have helped me and so many others create that ‘non diet’ bubble; I can’t describe how much I’ve treasured your encouragement in this area Robyn; and I’m going to definitely check out some of the podcasts you shared!

    Reply
    • Robyn says

      January 3, 2018 at 11:03 pm

      Thank you Emily, that means a ton. Love to you! <3

      Reply
  9. Maggie Rouen says

    January 3, 2018 at 10:21 pm

    Hi Robyn!

    Do you have any books to suggest??

    Reply
    • Robyn says

      January 3, 2018 at 10:56 pm

      What kind of books? Love to help!

      Reply
  10. Level devil says

    June 7, 2025 at 4:48 am

    I had a fantastic read of this narrative.

    Reply

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